Escorts are professionals who provide social and companionship services to clients. It is important to treat them with respect and dignity and not make assumptions about their personal lives or preferences. There are a number of questions escorts dislike being asked. Time and again, people make statements or ask escorts questions that they find rather uncomfortable but cannot tell you. Let us explore some of these questions and statements that you should not ask the escort before or after they provide you with companionship services.
1) Why can’t you just get married and settle
Most times when men see a beautiful escort, the first question they ask themselves is “why cant she just get a man and settle down, she is a very pretty woman.”
This doesn’t end there, most men actually ask the lady this question. This is rude and most escorts if not all find it very repulsive because they cannot go into the intricate details of why they are doing what they are doing. Many escorts hate this question as they feel it is an intrusion into their personal life and it makes them feel insecure about their choices. You should always approach a lady like this with a positive attitude if you want to learn about them.
2) How old are you in reality?”
The most escort will put as their age will range in the bracket within 20s. This is understandably so because most men will only go for a lady in their 20s since they are looking for fun and no strings attached. A lot of times a man will keep insisting relentlessly on the age matter for hours on end. If a lady seems older than her actual age, you can ask her how old she is but if she insists on not revealing her actual age then age really does not matter as long as she is an attractive and friendly escort.
3) What’s your real name?
It’s common knowledge that most escorts, both casual and premium use stage names rather than their real names. They do this to protect their real identities and lives and in most cases prefer to keep it that way. At times clients get curious and over-insist on their need to know an escort’s real name. Escorts dislike this because they hide their identities in the first case for a reason. Secondly, policemen and investigators tend to want to know a person’s real identity of Escorts and that puts them in a compromising position. So next time you see that escort, do not look for her real name, use what she tells you.
4) How do you keep your double life a secret?
It’s obvious that being an escort may not be most ladies 1st line of the choice for a career, however, you do what you have to do to put food on the table. Often time clients get curious and ask escorts how they manage to keep their secret lives hidden. This is supposed to be a secret and if they told us how they manage to do it then it would no longer be a secret, now would it? This question is wrong because it low key and suggests that you think the escort is doing a wrong thing and you are judging her for it.
The client shouldn’t really care how the escort makes it happen as long as it is done so discreetly that they don’t even see it happening. As long as they are getting the service they are paying for then they are happy!
5) What’s the highest you have ever been paid?
A lot of times out of curiosity a client will ask an escort questions about other clients, for example, “ what’s the highest a client has ever paid you” or “ Has a prominent politician ever sought your services?”. This kind of question can offend many escorts because while they may have worked for the said high-profile figure they were never paid the amount the client is thinking of. These kinds of questions are inappropriate because they are personal. 1) the escort finds them humiliating and a back door attempt to put a price tag to her sense of self-worth. 2) the escort finds this to be an intrusion not only into her private life but also into that of other clients hence answering such a question would render her unprofessional. Besides, if she answers she will only be encouraging you to dig further and ask more questions hence this becomes a no go zone.
6) How Long have you been doing this?
When one is with escorts then what has brought you to her is obvious, company and companionship. However, asking an escort how long she has been in the industry can come off as rude and judgemental because most escorts know that this is the way clients try to gauge the worth of their services and bring up complexities that are unnecessary.
If the escort says she has been doing it for a short time, the client may switch and claim that he wants someone more experienced, however, if the escort says she has been doing it for long, a client may claim that he wants someone new and fresh in the industry. Thus you can see why this question in most times is out of bad taste. Besides, it is best just to be in the moment and enjoy being.
Clients should not be concerned with how much experience she has but more so about how comfortable she feels with them as a client and how comfortable they feel with her as their companion for the night.
7) Have you ever been asked to do something sexual you didn’t want to do?
An escort’s role is to provide services to her clients which can sometimes include having sex and sometimes not having sex depending on the circumstances at hand. She isn’t here to judge her clients for what they ask of her as long as it is legal and moral. It does not mean that she will do whatever they want just because she can or even because she has done it before. If she were in that situation then she would tell them plainly that this was not a good idea for them and that if she was required to do that again that she would prefer it not to happen but she is not saying that she would necessarily refuse to do it. This goes back to the way that clients view their companions as just another piece of meat to use and abuse as they see fit. Sometimes clients do try to take advantage of escorts even if they are good at their jobs such as in the case of supplying them with drugs and alcohol knowing that they will comply.
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